i miss you more than i ever thought was possible.

i used to miss you, but knew that i would see you again, that i would get to talk about old times.

but now i don’t get to see your face again and i don’t know how to cope.

there is a part of me that feels maybe i have no right to miss you. that we weren’t as close as we used to be. these conflicting emotions make things so much harder.

nothing can compare to you. no matter how much we drifted you were still a massive part of my life. you were still a person i cherished every minute with. and it leaves me wondering how the fuck do you deal with losing a friend?

how do you wake up every day knowing that you never will? i just don’t want to accept you’re gone.


everything i wish i could have told you

everything i wish i could have told you

we were joined at the hip for near enough four years. in school it was like i never done anything without you by my side.

i wish that i could have told you how much you made an impact on my life. how fucking proud i am because we have all had our struggles and you made it through yours and made something out of your life.

i wish i had told you that although we didn’t talk anymore i still thought about you. about our memories. i still checked up to see how you were doing. i cheered you on from the sidelines, moral supporting your pictures and being happy that your life had turned out so well.

that life that has now been taken away leaving me feeling unbelievably numb that i have lost a part of my past.
i have lost any time in the future where we would have picked up where we left off.

you seemed to know when something was up with me and you always said the right things to make some of the pain go away. i will never forget how mad i was when you and eilidh went to mr bruce about my self harming because i was so adamant i could do it myself. but that was my first ever step on my road to recovery and i am so thankful to have known you because you were both looking out for me.

you were one hell of a girl. no matter what you went through you always had a smile on your face. you always found time for other people. and when i was really struggling you put me before yourself.

i don’t know if the world will ever feel normal knowing that you’re not in it anymore. knowing i’ll never get to see your face again and i’ll never get to hug you and laugh about all our memories. it is so unfair that you have been ripped from the people who cared about you most. you were cared for and loved and you touched so many lives. i wish it made knowing you’re gone easier. but it doesn’t.

you should still be here. you should still be going on with your every day life. you should be partying at the weekend and living your life during the week.

i will never forget you, my husband, my partner in crime, the gunter to my tinka. i love you, i always have and i will never stop.

thank you for existing in a time that i got to know you, i can’t imagine what my life would have been like if i never met you.



i remember when you told me
that i was so beautiful
that i had galaxies under my skin
and the light of stars in my eyes.

but when we look up at the nights sky
we are looking into the past
most of those stars are already dead.
just like my eyes look
and how under my skin feels.

i guess i’ve already burnt out.

temporary people 

temporary people 

sometimes i need to realise,
i am more than the people who left me,
i deserve more than that.

i am not defined by those who don’t stay,
i am defined by me,
and even sometimes that’s not as great.
my mind is a mess,
i am a mess.

but i would rather be a mess with people who care about me,
than a mess with people who are just going to easily give up.

i know when i am down i am not an easy person to be around,
but i can be good too,
i can shine brighter than any star in the sky,
and those who left are missing out on that.

i am better than that,
i am better than temporary people.



i want to die
but do i?

i’m so sick of this pain
this anxiety
the voices in my head
the loneliness

i say i want to die
but i just want this to end
i just want this to all stop
but still exist

how do you explain that?
i’m doing something good,
i’m going to be a nurse and
i can’t do that if in dead

but how else can i make this stop?



you’ve found someone new
i guess that i’m glad that you’re happy
but i’m not
because to get your happiness you destroyed me

i told myself that I wouldn’t hurt over you
but then I seemed to be scratching myself out of my own skin
tearing away the layers
seeing the blood
i don’t want to have the skin that you touched
the skin
you made me feel comfortable in

Fuck you. Fuck you. FUCK YOU.

l i e s

l i e s

i love you
you’re more than enough
you’re perfect
i could never find anyone better
ill never hurt you
i promise i won’t leave
i will marry you one day
what we have is real

every word falls away to ash
you don’t say these things and claim to be over someone a week after you split up
even that was a lie
a week after we split up you called me 140 times

don’t you DARE tell me you didn’t fuck me up
you have no clue
you get back up on your pedestal
paint yourself as the perfect person.

i know who you really are

you just didn’t want to be alone, so you settle
i don’t deserve to just be settled for

fuck you and all of the lies you ever told me